Inconsistency would make me angry as well and I would definitely bring it up if it's repetitive. Would probably give it a bit more time though and see if she can adjust to your needs and you two develop a better rapport. My T is more punctual than a Swiss clock and has a great way of indicating the end of the session simply just making a move in his chair, but there were things in his style of behaving in the session that I did not like very much in the beginning. I told him this and he changed immediately to fit with what I wanted. It was also interesting to discuss why the original style bothered me, I learned things about myself from it. We probably think some things should be obvious for a professional, but perhaps it is not, especially if we clients don't talk about it.