Alright, I'm sorry I sounded so dramatic and all but when I was writing that I was just going crazy because my mom tells me to express my feelings more but when I tried doing that and pointing out what she does wrong she denied it and said its about me. 😑 so yea I don't get to talk about my feelings much at all so I feel a little better after talking about my feelings more. That argument is over and everything is fine for now at least, because I don't know if it's me or not, but it seems like there's always something that seems to annoy me somehow, and I feel like I get less respect then everyone else because I am the youngest in the house. The main problem is my mom I think, because she always has no problems doing everything quickly, and she gets stuff done with ease but the problem is that when I try to help her, it's like she's telling me to do 2 things at once! And the problem is I can't do that like she can and she thinks I'm lazy because I stopped helping her with stuff but that's because she's way too demanding of me and that's how a lot of the arguments start. I am a very independent child and I'm often told I'm more mature then other kids my age. But I think that since I'm independent, it makes my mom think I can handle ALL of the responsibility she pushes on me and sometimes she does some terrible things to me, probably forgetting that as mature as I may be, I'm still a child. My father seems to have some issues of his own but he's getting better and he's much more calm towards these situations now. The problem just is that I don't know how to explain this to my mom in a way that won't make her use her "I don't expect too much of you, your just being lazy" excuse again because that's what she always says and it starts arguments. Is there any way I could get her to understand this? :/