Long story. I knew this guy for 20 years and he was partially responsible for busting up my marriage. When I was finally free and he was finally free I thought we might get together. But he was a player, dating younger woman. So it is really a long story. I am going to stay off Facebook. I was into this guy way more than he was me and I kind of felt like I was stalking him on FB. Of course I am happy for him except he wasn't that nice to me.