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Old Feb 12, 2016, 07:42 AM
ChavInAHat ChavInAHat is offline
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Originally Posted by A Red Panda View Post
Have you asked her why she keeps wanting to talk about your past job? I'm curious about her reasoning for it! Did you tell her that you had more important things to talk about, and explain why the past job wasn't a suitable topic that day? If you did then she really should have respected that, but if you didn't then she might have thought you were avoiding it due to it having some bad memories or something? I tend to avoid topics when they make me uncomfortable, but if there is something I am flat out. It going to talk about then I say "I'm not talking about that right now" and he respects that. But I have to make it clear.

It was more to do with a place that I can 'thrive' that is for me. She wanted to find a place in time where I was doing well. So she kept asking about my work but there wasn't much to tell. No bad memories, no issues.
I liked my job, I did well at my job.

However we were about to have a 2 week break and there were things that she was aware of that are going to be stressful but she focused on me being more sociable- but she knows I find that hard- hence my ASD assessment in 2 weeks

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