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Originally Posted by BudFox
How about sharing similar experiences in therapy that relate to the issues mentioned, as a way to commiserate. Or a gentle suggestion or two.
I dont see how anyone here is in a position to give anyone else a lesson or lecture.
Or if one must give advice, it wouldn't hurt to suggest at least considering staying away from therapy if it is causing ongoing problems.
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I do think therapy mostly causes more problems than it solves. People who buy into it of course believe it helps but that usually falls apart in the end.
This thread has gotten confusing. Therapy is a business? We're supposed to "shop" around for a therapist like a business transaction and yet it's supposed to be "personal" and a "relationship?"
I think therapy is really just not good for most people, but if someone thinks they must have it then there isn't much you can do to talk them out of it. In the case of the op the whole concept seems to cause an immense amount of distress. Not sure it's the best thing in this case.