I agree with other posters that dependency can be good and bad. It can be good because you can learn from it and learn why you feel you need your T so much and hopefully you can work through it. It can be bad if it gets out of control (daily contact, showing up at there house, not being able to use the stuff you learn in therapy to help between sessions) but a good T would be able to help you understand it and work through it.

I love my T very much. I love how she makes me feel and I love the connection and relationship we have. I love her because she really cares about me. She has shown through her actions that she cares and has my best interest at heart. She also gives me something I never had, a safe place to talk and explore my feelings with no judgment. She gives me the comfort I never had in a very safe and healthy way. I also love her personality and how much she really cares about people. She was meant to be a T.