Well, there is a real art to having conversations with people. Some people are born with a natural talent. Most of us have to work at it.
Asking questions that the other person can answer (and enjoy talking about) is a good thing. Listening to what the other person is saying, and picking up those key aspects, to ask further questions about, helps a lot.
I would not advise you to give up on talking. You just may want to change the way that you go about it, and see if that helps you. Best wishes!
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