Almeda I'm sorry. I know what it feels like to expect a certain response and how let down you can feel when you get something very, very far away from that?

What did he say on the voicemail, if you don't mind me asking. Or was it is tone that upset you?

I'll be thinking of you... Good luck at your session tonight. Be honest with him, say the things you said here... tell him how much you hated that message. Tell him you never, ever want to call again. I do that after I get a not-so-good message from my T... it helps to put us back on the same page. A lot of times he'll say, "You're right. I wasn't empathic at all. Why wouldn't you be pissed off at me right now?"

Ooops, I just realized that you wrote you want to stay off this topic with him tonight. Well, I'm not sure that you can... don't you think it will affect your interactions with him? It's best to get it out in the open. Good luck.