I am a female in my mid-thirties, involved with a male in his late 40s. We have been friends for about 6-7 years before starting to date (almost 1 year). I am not sure where the relationship is going, but, am confused because he does not seem to be attracted to me. There has been no intimacy - hand holding (3x), kissing (1-2x) other than innocently, let alone any more intimate contact. I have talked with him twice about this - to see if there is something else going on, or if he doesn't want to continue the relationship. He has indicated he is developing feelings of attraction for me. I feel lost and I am hurt. Please help.