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Originally Posted by clover1011
I Have a really bad problem that I've been struggling with for a long time, I've been told by my parents and some other people that I have anger issues, and that seems to be effecting my relationships. I am constantly fighting with my parents and I don't know why but I just hate them!! They constantly annoy me and I feel like they shouldn't always be telling me what to do! I know I probably sound dramatic and stupid like they always tell me, and I've tried talking to them about how I feel but they ended up starting another fight because of it! I was traumatized at a young age, and I seemed to have gotten these anger issues from my dad. My mom and dad and even my brothers also always fight with each other and recently my dad and my brother got in a fight and started literally throwing stuff at each other and everyone was yelling at each other, and trust me it was ugly.. they fight constantly but never like that! I'm always being blamed for these stupid things and I'm sitting here my moms yelling at me through the door RIGHT NOW! Yeah! ITS THAT BAD! I'm sick of the drama and chaos and I wish I could kill myself but I can't cause I know it's not right, But I just hate my parents and I wish they were dead but I don't wanna think that way.. and I think I have emotional issues and I feel like I'm a terrible person.. I need help. I could tell more but I don't wanna make this too long, and I don't want to sound dramatic although I probably do, I just need some help to overcome these anger issues and forget about all the trauma and somehow find a way to get my parents to understand, IF THAT'S POSSIBLE! 😠😔
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Are you in school? I suggest you tell your favorite teacher or school counselor about your homelife. Then if it is possible get involved in school activities that will take you out of the house. If there is a library close by, start studying there. You're not going to be able to 'grow up' your parents, so start doing what you need to do to gain some peace and quiet for yourself. I don't think you have "anger issues" so much as a cruddy homelife and of course you're angry about that. But use that knowledge to find a way to help yourself.