Justice - when I was talking about the path people choose, I was talking about the victims not about the abusers - I could care less about the path my abuser or any abuser for that matter chooses (except let me add so I am not misunderstood - I do wish our criminal justice system could find a way to put these people away from society forever, I have no problem with life in prison without the possibility of parole for any abuser because I, for one, believe they will continue to do their evil whenever and where ever they get the chance) - as far as I am concerned my abuser and all abusers have already chosen the path straight to hell. I am sorry my message was not clear - it was only intended to be about each victim hopefully at some point finding a path that works for them (the victims) and that each victim may find a different path. Take care (((( Justice)))) and I do fervently hope that some day you get the justice you need and deserve and see the system stand up for you for once and lock your abuser away forever and ever.