hehe. mums working on separating for what sounds like a lot of the same reasons you are. its taking time to get to the psychological place where she s able to. we re just waiting to see what happens really.
if you re really not my mother in disguise then can i adopt you as a second mother please because i really want to live on a farm with horses and 12 doggies!! youd have to accept being co-parent with my actual mother though since i couldnt give her up.