nothing on my original post had anything to do with 'invisibility'. i understand that function, and use it. it's kind of annoying when someone doesn't read what's actually written, then talks to themself, and hijacks the thread to deal with their own issues.

thanks to people who tried to help. the only thing that seems true is that the public post on when i am here is an OLD function, and can only be seen by members who have been here at least 3 yrs. ( I hope~!)....

best wishes to all~