I have been married 11 great years. Thought I had one of those rare, truly happy marriages. I am bipolar and he suffers from depression very occationally (so he truly knows mental illness). I caught him on websites looking for a "HookUps". He made a profile with a picture and everything, actually more than a few profiles.

I know I caught him early and he was not yet talking to anyone ( I checked every site) but I was completely floored.

He is a great man in my eyes and we do love each other, but I feel like I'm in a different marriage, the trust has been broken.

I have been pretty stable on my meds and handled it pretty well considering.

I hear that this will not be the last time. Any ideas