Debbie-
Thanks for your insight. He seemed to really hear some of the things I said last night and isn't getting mad at me as easily today. I thought a lot last night and today on how my actions are effecting our marriage. I decided that i need to get better for me and that will help us a lot. He did relieze today that he has been pulling away from me. When I get home from therapy tonight we are going to sit down and talk about how to deal with things between now ans when things get better with the therapy.
Helpless