We have, far to many times, allowed our marriage to fall to the wayside because of kids, or other reasons that aren't nearly as important as us. We've only been married four months and I feel like I've put way to much ahead of our marriage already. One of the things I'm going to work on in and out of therapy is putting my priorities straight.
Thanks again for your thoughts. It helps greatly to have someone outside the situation give feedback.

Helpless