Hello and welcome to Psych Central Meg. Even if your husband has ADHD that is no excuse for his behavior towards things in the household. I would highly suggest as January suggested having him see a therapist for his anger issues, since his actions are not appropriate, and you should not feel obligated to make excuses for his bahavior. His issues can be helped with the right therapy. Please try to kkep your own mental health safe as well during this time of stress. Take care. Soidhonia