I've been called too nice, before. Getting together with my exhusband helped overcome that. He didn't browbeat it out of me or anything, but he actually showed me some ropes in how to best deal with his own family. Showed how to not volunteer myself, because could work two ways. Being taken advantage of or being viewed as insincere. He wanted me to remember two things, with age differences in the geneological chart. One) though my mom was the same age as his sisters and me the same age as the nieces, renember where I fall on the hierarchy. Two) their opinions of me don't matter so don't get caught up.

And voila, no longer a negative.

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