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Originally Posted by musinglizzy
T1 keeps questioning why I haven't "gotten over" it yet. She's seeming more cold to me, when she used to be so warm, loving, understanding...I'm not feeling those things as much anymore, so I know it's time to move on. But I also know, given the state of my mental health right now, I really need to feel safe leaving her, and have someone else in place. I need therapy right now.
Leaving T1 will be VERY hard. But I know it must be done.
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I'm ecstatic for you! It sounds like things are finally starting to fall in place for you. I really hope this is a turning point for you.
Just a thought...if you are still seeing T1 twice a week and you are now seeing T3, would it help to cut T1 back to once a week to start "weening" yourself off of her? If she's becoming more cold to you, it might the right time to start the process.
Thanks for the update. I'm proud of you!