Btwn ex-T and current T, I saw a T twice. First time was okay. Second time was bad. She was telling me how she wanted to go to her high school reunion to show off how good she looked compared to how old the others looked. I told her she was being judgmental. She was also very religious (even had a degree in catholicism). On top of that, she was just a couple miles away from ex-T which is 40 miles from where I live. Too close to ex-T and too far from home.