Quote ilikecats: "I think I just want to give it to her because I care about her and want to make her happy."

The above sentence states clearly you "want something" in return from your therapist. Puts you on a slippery slope in my opinion only. If it were me, I would heed the advice here...and if you feel you must give it to her have the discussion of what is underneath the giving enlight of your rupture with her.

I usually always see patterns, and short of sexual post, I have never read a thread in 3 1/2 years where NO poster has agreed with the OP's plan.