Ok, but know that you are not the one stirring stuff up here. Your t did that all on his own. This is his fault, not yours.

I know you are strongly attached to this t so I understand your hesitation to file a complaint. At the very least, please document everything that happened with this -- dates, times, names, method of contact, etc. Save texts and emails. You may feel differently about this t down the road as he continues to cause you harm. All bits of evidence around this guys wrong doings will be to your benefit.