Just a word of caution.....My mother died of vulvar cancer. A lump on her vulva (the area you described). She thought it was a cyst, boil, ingrown hair......until she went in to have it checked....she let it go until the lump was the size of my fist & it was cancer. It actually was skin cancer that grows in that area of the female body. It comes from being irritated & is a sore that doesn't heal or heals up somewhat only to come back.

If you do a search on "vulvar Cancer" you can read about the causes & issues involved. The cancer had not only spread into her groin but into her %#@&#! area by the time she did anything about it. This is probably worse case scenerio but if it can happen to my 80 year old mother, it can happen to younger people who are careless with that area of their body.

Just something more to think about when you are thinking that having sex with just anyone is a wonderful recreation.

Debbie