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Originally Posted by Barreja
I have been married 11 great years. Thought I had one of those rare, truly happy marriages. I am bipolar and he suffers from depression very occationally (so he truly knows mental illness). I caught him on websites looking for a "HookUps". He made a profile with a picture and everything, actually more than a few profiles.
I know I caught him early and he was not yet talking to anyone ( I checked every site) but I was completely floored.
He is a great man in my eyes and we do love each other, but I feel like I'm in a different marriage, the trust has been broken.
I have been pretty stable on my meds and handled it pretty well considering.
I hear that this will not be the last time. Any ideas
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I'm a sex addict. I decided to go to counseling and it's helping. You should study the sexual addiction cycle to see what triggered the episode. If you can work on the triggers you can help him into recovery, but like every other addiction, he has to be willing to accept help.
His sexual addiction does not diminish his greatness as a man.