Yes, I have. I came across an ad on a sex site that my ex posted saying he is looking for a discreet relationship didn't mention anything about me but him posed as if he was single! I confronted him about that (he has sexted women on hangouts) saying he put that ad up so he can find a woman for me etc. I looked at him saying with the word discreet in the ad? Do I look stupid? No woman isn't gonna believe that not after she sees the word discreet that comes across as cheating and he said I am not cheating never have (oh really?).

I found out from his mom a couple months ago when I told her how I broke up with him and that **** she said he was always going on those sex sites/phone sex chat lines (before I knew him) and he ran up his parents' bill back then! He told me it was his dad on those sites I am like oh great I was with a sex addict for 10 yrs?!? I told him plenty of times if he was so unhappy with our relationship, especially the sex part, why didn't we talk about it? If so, why didn't he say he wanted to end the relationship back then for whatever the legitimate reasons were?