Sorry sounds horrible. Sounds hypo or manic or mixed. Can you call your pdoc and tell them it's this bad? They should help you with a med adjust probably over the phone. The family just wants to help with their suggestions they don't usually know what to say to help. Can you list some things to tell them they could do or say to help? For me, I don't want them to tell me to brush anything off or oh I wouldn't worry about that or oh you're gonna be fine tomorrow. For me, what I want to hear is, I'm here for you, you can cry, we will find a way, I see you're hurting, may I yet you a blanket and a drink. But what words or actions that may halp you could be very different.
Glad you found group here, you're in right place welcome