I don't judge because you did not do anything deliberate. I think you didn't think it is a big deal to see a t of your t. I really don't understand the whole arrangement and why was it encouraged?or he just suggested listening podcasts? If he actually recommended you go see his own t then he is out of his mind.

But I think it is pretty normal that your therapist talks about his clients in therapy including talking about clients being in love with them. I am not really sure why it was brought up to you and if it is unethical or not ( probably unethical) but then again how was this new t could keep seeing you?

I would certainly not see this new therapist anymore. In fact I probably wouldn't see neither one of them. I would look for new one

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