Lost2bipolar, I can see in your writing how much you are suffering. I wish I could take that burden of pain off you for a while so you can rest.

Please, focus on your health at this time. I know you want justice, but if you don't take care of yourself first you will never obtain it in any way.

Secondly, please try to accept the fact that you cannot control everything, especially other people's actions and reactions. You did your best to help your gf with the resources you had.

The doctors treat patients with the information available. In an emergency, in a new hospital/doctors, information is not always known. It's so unfortunate.