I would think integration is not people pleasing so the less arguing the better...Sure there will be always outside situations that hampered your decision making process that caused you to seem like the arguing and indecisiveness of others worst. I would think letting go of the past and making decision from the here and now....I think memories always have a chance of revealing themselves, but integration in my mind is the calming cohesiveness of living life. I don't think no switch is required either that is totally separate the fact that you don't lose much time now is great indicator that you are almost there. Yes, there are things people that may cause you to become unglued, in my mind that is just temporary set back.....This last sentence happened to me not too long ago....I think it is mostly about keeping yourself well all parts doing what they need to do, picking battles, and losing toxic people...If I was you I would work on arguing from your littles......There will always be emerging alters from the past and the present that make them selves known quickly, although I read it should slow up considerably. I think the inner dialoguing conversations should be at a minimal and very quiet just like a whisper.......I would require executive switches if their role to be something instead of a co hosting or co running roles, too me it makes it confusing...I'm not integrated this is just my idea of how it should be....That may change later on....I would not rush it though because that could leave a false sense of reality in your wellness....I also think therapy should cease or if not there yet once per month like prn maintenance therapy ..... I'm not sure where that leaves your co- morbid diagnoses, but I would think there should be significant reduction of that as well.....The reoccurring emotions and parts should be minimal unless something really bad happens.