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Originally Posted by BudFox
I think the danger in any sort of attachment to a T is that the caring can seem so real. But it is always an act. In the isolation of therapy, it's easy to lose perspective and to feel as though this person is in your life.
My T wanted me gone as quickly as possible once I threatened what she really cared about -- her self image and necessary delusions, her practice, her feelings. Suddenly I was reminded that I meant little to her. A mere client.
It's the experience of a personal relationship confounded with that of a business consultation. Betrayal and abandonment are easily rationalized, while still inflicting plenty of harm. Business is business. It is what it is. The customer is always wrong.
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For me and many others, the caring was/is real, despite the nature of the relationship. There are bad business people in every profession, and I'm sorry you and many others got the short end of the stick. It has been said that therapy is not for everyone. Many through no fault of their own have been failed by the profession. I truly believe that after reading PC for 3 1/2 years, there are other avenues to try, for exampl, being a vocal opponent against the industry, or do nothing, and live life as is. Healing can happen in many forms. I also believe it might not be the right time in one's life to go into therapy. After reading many post about yours and others treacherous experiences, I understand the situation your in. Funny, I never thought I would be in the camp of therapy is not for everyone, but you all have convinced me loud and clear.
Good luck in whatever your willing to try.