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Originally Posted by healingme4me
If you've tried and it's difficult then I feel he's completely out of line. I don't personally mind hugs and cheek kissing, even new to family provided it's done in a family atmosphere, if that clarifies? I hear you about strangers, gosh if I walked into a pta meeting with that expected stated or otherwise I'd be weirded out, especially where there's a diversity level as high a percentage as it is here. If not family, I'm really not about being addressed like family. Hugs and cheek is formal in informal surroundings, meaning it's a formality even as today with new to me 'family' at my sister's baby shower. For instance, in leaving that was the goodbye gesture between myself and the mother of my sister's fiance. A handshake upon entry.
Not sure why your husband finds your feelings weird?
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Yeah, doing that with people that you barely know, or are not close to is weird to me. He thinks that my feelings are weird since he thinks that everyone should suck it up to fit in at times.
I disagree. He also has cared a lot more about other people's feelings than mine. Ugh! At least I no longer have to worry about all of that-