My "for now" husband of 9 months is in the Marines. We've never spent more than two weeks in each other's presence with him and deployments. I love him but recently our marriage is shattering day by day. As I said before I love him with all my heart but recently we've been arguing almost EVERY SINGLE DAY and I never call him out of his name or belittle him. That's all he does. He's very controlling (hacking into emails Apple ID blocking contacts in my phone controlling where I go) and he's in Okinawa doing this. He says very hurtful things like "I don't deserve to be loved". "I'm not good for anything but sex". "I'm happy you didn't have my daughter". He always apologizes after and says it won't happen again but it does. I don't know what to do at this point. My self esteem is on -1 and every day is a challenge. I rather have my phone off all day than text or call my husband. I'm at a dead end ...