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Originally Posted by WanderingBark
I'm really in the thick of deep transference for my therapist. He is fully aware of this and we've talked about it quite a lot. I brought it up today as I had a horrible week of obsessive thoughts and feelings of deeply needing him when he wasn't available. He suggested that I give in to the attachment and trust the therapy. I've decided to do this but I don't know where to begin or how to start.
What does giving into attachment look like? How does one do this?
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Can you trust him? How do you know? What is the methodology he proposes for this and what is the end game? What does your gut say?
I was in the same boat. I did not give in willingly though. The process sucked me in beyond my control. I too developed obsessive thoughts and they are still there, post termination. It was and is a nightmare.