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Old Feb 15, 2016, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
Did something change, that you don't have worry about that?

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Yes, it sure did, but before that happened, we had a lot of fights. I'd even go so far as to say fine, I'll go see your friends. Then I'd act out passive agressively and sulk the whole time and end up not saying much of anything. I hate to say this, but it did help me to get out of no longer getting invited to events.

I was younger back then. Bascially I stuck to my guns and flat out told him how uncomfortable I felt in their company, so he finally gave up on trying to get me to change. Especially when I told him, look, if so and so does this, then you have two choices, you let me tell them how I feel, or you do it. He refused to let me do either most of the time, and he was always afraid that I'd say something "rude", so he reluctantly had to speak up on my behalf a few times.

We used to hang out with one of his emloyees who was an old pervert. He'd leer at me all the time and make inappropriate sexual jokes and comments, but not directly at me exactly. And he did this in front of his weird g.f too who would just sit there and hardly say anything to me most of the time. She was American btw and she spoke English of course. I don't think that she was shy either.

So one day he finally had to have a word with his creepy employee. I'm not exaggerating the creep factor. He kept on trying to read emails that I was typing when I went to the office once. I kept on having to close the screen. He then prentened to be a customer when he left the office as a joke.

He'd do stuff to annoy me a lot, and it was to much. Even my husband thought that he was an old pervert, but that was fine with him as he's kind of one too at times, ugh! He got fired or left a long time ago, but not because of me.

Thank god that most of his friends and family live really far away-
Thanks for this!
healingme4me