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Old Feb 15, 2016, 09:14 PM
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I have thought about moving out yeah but the kids will be staying with me and it would make it very hard on them if we were to move out because of schools etc. I have asked him when he plans to move out, he says he has no plans as yet and staying with me works for him. It's convieniant. Xxxxx
Well, most divorces result in the other moving out. A true separation requires separate households. Probably better to get used to the change in financial obligations sooner or later.

If he plans on staying and papers aren't being processed, I believe it's fair on your end to request that neither of you become involved with anyone else until the dust settles, wouldn't send a good message to the kids, if you know what I mean.

Keep plugging away with your doctors and therapists and try to get yourself into a better place emotionally for yourself and the kids.



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