It's never too late to work on sorting through your attachment style, which seems to burden you on an emotional level.

Doesn't seem like you misread this latest woman's style, but I'm curious as to what prompted her to not reciprocate in kind. Reciprocal curiosity, but something I wondered while reading.

Certainly work through the attachment style, looking into attachment theory. Have you had any CBT? That could help. From there, maybe you'll feel a bit more confident that you'll not self sabotage?

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