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Old Feb 15, 2016, 09:32 PM
WanderingBark WanderingBark is offline
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Originally Posted by BudFox View Post
Can you trust him? How do you know? What is the methodology he proposes for this and what is the end game? What does your gut say?

I was in the same boat. I did not give in willingly though. The process sucked me in beyond my control. I too developed obsessive thoughts and they are still there, post termination. It was and is a nightmare.
I'm struggling with trusting him, but not because he isn't trust worthy. I'm terrified of being hurt/let down. I'm terrified that he'll promise to be there for me and then one day he won't. He hasn't proposed specific methodology, but I think the end game is to resolve/manage my anxiety or at least that's part of it. Now my gut says I can trust him whereas a few months ago it said I couldn't.
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BudFox