I've been in a relationship for nearly a year and a half now and it's been really good on the whole. My main issue is every now and then I get really angry and put out about things. It may be the way I feel I was treated by someone it may be an issue I see as unfair. Never physical violence or threats, rather more like venting a lot and ranting. My partner says to deal with it as she sees it as my main failing and hates it. How do I deal with it? I can't afford therapy bit any issue that has a negative impact on my relationship must be nipped in the bud if at all possible