What does giving in to attachment look like? Its like not looking at your feet when youre learning to dance. Cuz dancing is not just about moving your feet, its just something you do as a part of dancing. So is attachment a part of therapy. Dont look at your feet - just do the rest of therapy as if you were attached. Dont WORRY about how many emails youre "allowed" - thats looking at your feet and counting steps. Just KNOW you can contact if you need to - thats following ts lead on the dance floor.