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Old Feb 16, 2016, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted by ozzycat View Post
I do think about him but I am not a homewrecker so the only way I know to do is stay away and give his marriage a chance to work out( hopefully that's what he's doing) but it is hard attraction don't just dissapear ...thing is do I let him know how I feel or just continue like I am ..becausehow can I just ignore it...it sux not knowing what the future holds if anything
How are you two in communication, still?

Why did you let him know how you feel?

Are you hoping he has feelings for you? Why not? Maybe he does. Maybe he's confused as well. But even if he does, that changes nothing. By sticking around, wondering what the future holds, its distracting a man who is probably "conflict avoidant" from taking a good hard look in the mirror. Do you really want a man that can't grab the bull by the horns?

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