I'm so sorry that you had to end that way.
Once or twice in the year of seeing T, I told her I wanted to quit because I felt as if everything was my fault and I thought I was getting too annoying and taking a long time to "get better". My T talked me through it and even said she would prefer I stay longer because she felt as if we haven't even covered all the important concepts. Maybe he did care a bit that he got offended and blaming you was, in the weirdest way, a caring mechanism? I could be SO wrong though.
Try to take a break a bit, and see if you would like to go back maybe to a different T. Just an idea.
Goodluck with whatever you choose to do.