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Old Feb 16, 2016, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by ozzycat View Post
Please know I am not going to wait on him to make a move one way or another I am just saying its hard but I'm strong enough not to pursue it he may never get divorced I'm just saying if maybe down the road if he becomes single maybe something can happen ... But I'm also hurt and fustrated he put me in this position because he is taken ..
Have you ever looked into the literature out there about what attracts unavailable men to you and how to avoid that pitfall going forward? There's many books and articles. It's ok to be angry/hurt/frustrated because your emotions became tangled up with him. As resentful as it can leave one feeling, it can be empowering to discover these answers for yourself to release that monkey from your back.

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