Steve:

Right on, welcome. This us such a lonely condition, not like you can bump into another, even at most m.i. clinics.

I wish I can just forget and go back into denial, but Sherry (changed her name) did her homework too good in the past year. She pointed out the obvious and proved it. :/

We used to mindlessly go with the flow, but now it's jacked up and nothing is the same. Now we argue more than ever. Whatever, this is the the new norm...get used to it.

Keep asking questions and telling about yourself. You'll see that everyone's system is different because of life experiences, but the root cause of this condition is the same: unprocessed trauma. Whatever it was, may it R.I.P.

See ya around.