I fully agree! None of us can take or should take personal blame for any genetic defects. We did not cause them to be there. As with any defects, I don't think blame should be taken. It's the actions we take and make that I am still up in arms about. I do not have either of these, however with what I do have, I've often heard my actions were because of my disorders. I still feel responsibility is mine to own. Even the things I detest most and were completely out of my norm.