No offense or anything, but if you're 60 and you're dating 20 something year olds, that's a problem right there. It's highly doubtful that you'll have much in common with them. Why not go after women closer to your own age? A 40 year old woman would be a better fit for you if you happen to like younger women.

Aside from their looks, what is it about them that is so appealing? You sound a lot like a couple of my old female friends. They'd fall in "love" with just about any guy that was close to their type who would say anything nice to them. All a guy had to do was tell them that they thought they were pretty, and they'd fall in "love". It was so sad.

And things got worse when these guys led these poor vulnerable and very desperate women on by telling them how they're interested in getting married and having kids, but it was all a lie just to get them in bed. They always fell for that crap. I think that they were in love with love and they were really lonely on top of that.

Maybe you're just trying to fill a lonely void in your life? It sounds like you have a fear of being alone, and maybe some self esteem issues. People who need other people to make them feel loved usually have self esteem issues. Hang out with friends if you're lonely.

It's never a good idea to get attached to someone so quickly. That tends to scare off most people. Get to know someone first before you decide that you're in "love" with them. Maybe you just really love the fact that someone is being nice to you and giving you a bunch of positive attention. That's not real love.

Also, there are lots of not so nice people out there that can spot a needy person from a mile away and end up taking advantage of them. Try to work on not being needy. It also tends to repel most people. I know that for a fact as I have been told that I was needy in the past by former friends. I try not to be to needy to others now, and most of the time, I'm not anymore.

Maybe you should see a relationship counselor to help you out with this issue.