Not all borderlines act out by manipulating and attacking everyone.


You may want to read up on the Quiet Borderline, it may or may not be informative.


For the record, I am not manipulative, I'm likeable, easy to get along with and have excellent relationships, the turmoil regarding them is all internal.


Well except for my BF, that was external for a while, but mostly because I was still traumatized from my ex.