Thanks for your replies

I met him online. We had a short conversation yesterday. I tried to call him on what he's been doing. He always gives conflicting reasons. I think he just doesn't know, himself. And as someone said before, his reasons are always changing. I just want him to leave me alone. Five days went by, I thought that would be it. Then he popped up again. I'm sure another week or so will go by, then he will pop up again. Wtf does he want?

I know ignoring/blocking would be the best way to go but I also don't know if he could retaliate against me. We were connected on facebook before I deleted my account so he could have gotten all of my friends and family's names and info. I know I'm probably being paranoid but then again he has been diagnosed with several personality disorders, including Schizoid and more than one on the Cluster B spectrum. So he is capable of pretty much anything.

I just want him to fade out and get bored/annoyed of me and stop contacting me. I'm trying to give him the creeps or irritate him. But I also don't want him to catch on to what I'm doing.

I know it all sounds really crazy. It is. We are both disordered people and I'm in a very vulnerable position with him. He has all of my personal info plus he knows a lot of personal stuff about me. I have no idea why I handed that power over to him.

It scares me to know he could technically find my address. Anyone who knows my full name can. As well as my mother's. If it were just a normal person I wouldn't care much, but he seems to pride himself on being evil. He has no desire to be a "good" person. He also has a lot of stalking and rape fantasies. I just hope he finds someone else to occupy him. He has let up a lot on me. For awhile there he was in almost constant contact with me. Now 5 days or 3 days can go by without hearing from him. Maybe he has another target he is working on. That is my intuition.