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Originally Posted by Nickname
Without taking the marriage's history into account it is not fair to decide on this incident to ruin the marriage. You all pushing her to terminate her marriage, while she mentioned that she caught him before talking to anyone, and she still sees him a great person and they both love each others. I think a more reasonable response would be to let her talk to her husband, and try to figure out why he was thinking hookup in the first place. If she discovered that he is a sex addict, and he has cheated on her without her knowing, then it is another story.
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Most said to talk to him - I told her he may feel something changed in the relationship n he is now missing something n if that's the case relationship counseling could help. Most of us said it's probably not an addiction. I think perhaps you read a couple responses and then decided that's how we all responded?