You completely did the right thing in telling your T what was going on for you. Your T's response was terrible and unprofessional. Ultimately T's are human and I guess it is human to experience negative stuff if we feel criticised, but your T should have had more awareness of his achilles heel and should have responded to you as a therapist and not from his emotions.

I would feel devastated if my T acted in this way. I am so sorry that your T did this to you.

I hope you will feel able to seek another, better T.