If you feel a thread is not within our Community Guidelines you are welcome to report the thread to the Team. We will look into it and decide if it's acceptable or needs an admin action.
Other than that, the best thing you can do to make your own experience here the best it can be is to make note of which threads you are not comfortable with and stay away from them. Whether you use the ignore feature or not is completely up to you. If you wish to concentrate on threads that are asking for support, that would be great sophiesmom, we need our members to be supportive of one another.